Relationships challenge you to reconsider some of your basic assumptions this month. The New Moon in quirky Aquarius on February 2 falls in your 8th House of Intimacy, which is a reminder that an open mind is as important as an open heart to nourish love in your life. You may think that you know someone well or know exactly what you need in a partner but those ideas might be outdated this month. This isn't about giving up core values but it is about recognizing that the only safety in relationship is to be willing to grow and discover new things about yourself and your partner.

If you really value someone, exploring an uncomfortable edge may be the price to pay to keep the connection alive and interesting. This Aquarian trend is also your chance to be freer with the one you love or in seeking a desirable partner. The mood shifts when the Sun enters watery Pisces on February 18, beginning a month-long period when tenderness and fantasy can enliven your person life.

However, loving Venus' stressful square with stingy Saturn on February 18 presents a barrier of self-doubt, a resistant partner or a moment when you must be clear about your needs and stand up for yourself before a softer and more playful period ensues.