The game of love is likely to become a bit more complicated this month. And even though you might be a pretty good player, it's tough when the rules change as much as they might now. The astrological influence behind this is the retrograde period of Venus from October 8 until November 18. This backward cycle occurs in the deep, complex sign of Scorpio where emotional mysteries rule. You might feel like you're dealing with a situation that you thought was settled or find yourself revisiting memories of old wins and losses in matters of the heart. It's sometimes exciting to revisit the past and may even provoke a desire to reconnect with a previous partner. However, this transit can also expose insecurities about yourself. Now this isn't for everyone to see; it's private and you have the right to keep it that way. In fact, discretion can be the key to relationship success at this time since trumpeting your wins or lamenting your frustration publicly is not going to be helpful.

The Sun, though, is in fair-minded Libra until October 23 and is moving through your 3rd House of Communication. This gives you opportunities to discuss the complex issues you may be facing. Seek the company of someone who is supportive but doesn't feel like she or he has to agree with everything you say. You don't need a fan as much as you do a friend who is going to be honest in expressing her or his opinion.