Finding peace and balance within is the best way to make yourself attractive to others this month. The Sun is in harmonious Libra and your 2nd House of Self-worth until October 23, which can boost your confidence. It comes from being gracious and kind to yourself rather than pushing harder or being overly critical.

Your brainy ruling planet Mercury enters Libra on October 3, opening the door even wider to a more pleasant picture of yourself. There is, though, one major theme this month that can turn relationships inside out for almost everyone. Venus, the planet of love, is will be retrograde in sexy Scorpio from October 8 until November 18. This reversal of course can reveal unmet needs and simmering resentment but can also awaken romantic memories.

Venus' retrograde turn occurs in your 3rd House of Communication, stimulating some very deep discussions. However, Scorpio is secretive, reminding you to be selective about with whom you talk with about intimate matters. If you're single, this is good for connecting (or reconnecting) with an emotionally mature person who is able to listen to complex matters without being silly or superficial. Generally, you don't care for immature and impulsive individuals and that may be even truer this month. On the other hand, you could be difficult to read, which may require more explanation if you want to maintain a happy relationship or launch a new one. Patiently revealing your concerns and expectations may not sound alluring but could be a powerful means of connecting with the right person.